Failure - A new Beginning..

"Failure" - Sounds not soo good. People are scared of this word. And experiencing this word is the most difficult task for anybody on this planet. Example goes with ME.

 Failure occurs when you think of GIVING UP. It is created by human beings only. People should stop thinking negatively. Negative thinking leads to failure in some cases. Positive thinking leads to many good and helpful situations.  If you think that you cannot do or perform a task, you will never be able to do it. You first need to try and when you are thinking that you are not able too do it, don't stop trying. Because trying is the main agenda for success. Never stop trying things.

FAIL stands for - First

                             Attempt

                             In

                             Learning.

Failure is the opportunity to  BEGIN more intelligently.. Never let Success get into your head and never let Failure get into your heart. Success comes to people who are worth deserving and are hard working. It is not so easy to achieve success. Failure should not be affecting us in any way. Because it's not the end. Failure helps us to start the desire again in not the same way. The mistakes which are attempted before can be avoided later and hence it's some what beneficial for us.

"Fall seven times.. Stand up Eight.."

"You have to be able to accept failure to get better.."

Thomas Edison said :- I will not say i have failed 1000 times, I will say that I discovered there are 1000 ways that can cause FAILURE.

Bill Gates said :- I failed in some subjects in the exams. My friend passed in all the subjects. Today he is an employee in my own company.


Samuel Beckett said :- Go on failing.. Go on failing.. Only next time "FAIL BETTER"!!


And my favourite.. -

Napolean Hill said :- Most great people have attained their greatest success just one step beyond their greatest failure..

So the thing what I have learnt is Failure is not the end.. Picture abhi baaki hai mere dost.. (Here picture means the success what you are gonna achieve after your Failure). Stop  not believing in yourself. Start positive thinking and you are moving a step forward to success..

28th june 2014..!

It was my 18th birthday. Calls started from night 11-58pm only. I felt quite happy as many calls were on waiting. I thought I will not be celebrating my birthday as nobody showed interest. But papa booked the hall and calls were made to the family people and friends. The day was too boring as I was stting at home. The party began at night.! All my friends and family and relatives everybody were present and I was the reason for the party.. I felt too awkward at one point of time as everybody there wanted to meet me and greet me.. I was very happy as my 18th became so memorable as all the special people of my life blessed me.. I truly enjoyed the day actually NIGHT..! :p

The best gifts i received were the 6 novels and a photo frame with a sweet photo in it.. :)

ExpecTatiOns LeAds to diSappOintmentS

Yes.. As the title is.. This post of mine is about Expectations.. This is seen in people at a high level.. Expectation is what is considered the most likely to happen.. But as you know everything has IF and IF NOT's.. I mean Conditions Apply** wala star mark.. It may or may not be realistic.. If it happens.. It comes as a surprise to the people and if it comes as less advantageous result, it gives rise to emotion of sadness and disappointments..
The more you expect things.. The more you are HURT.. The less you expect.. The less you are disappointed..
The best way to avoid these disappointments is to NOT expect ANYTHING from ANYONE..
Dealing with disappointment is very difficult for people like me.. 😁
i just found out an equation relating to this topic of mine.. It goes like this..

          Disappointment = Expectation/Reality

Few examples where expecting things results in disappointments are given below..

1. A normal 22-25 years graduate expects to get a job and earn money in dollars or euros without working hard or doing nothing.. This is not possible.. He can be successful only when his aim will be to be able to utilize his skill and knowledge efficiently and effectively..  And when this is not his aim the result obviously will be disappointing..

2. A student's expectations are always to be a top grade student of his class or school.. But, to achieve high grades he needs to work hard and avoid few things.. If he always wants to hang out with friends and still expects to achieve high grades, the result will be disappointing..

3. A person who is in a relationship always expects his/her partner to stay loyal or to share each and everything with them.. This can only happen when both the people in the relation are able to understand, trust completely and love each other equally.. They need to know that they can be happy together and can enjoy each other's company.. In The beginning of the relation everyone will have butterflies in their stomache.. As it gets older people change..

4. Few people expects or actually (wants) their daughters to get married without their approval and get them married, face disappointments on a large scale.. As they later get to know about the groom's family and realise that their daughter is not happy.. At this type of situations, parents should first get all the information about the family and then give their children some time to think and decide.. As it is their child's future..

This is not the end.. Their are many more examples.. But the thing is.. People should STOP EXPECTING.. Its not that I am forcing you or something.. Everybody has their own choices and rights and decisions.. What I have learnt from my life is what I have written here.. 

Our Society..

Our society is very very corrupt.. It should have to be changed.. It is very necessary for our society to change. Everybody here are hungry for money. I know money is necessary for our living. But it is not that necessary that people start doing wrong things. Our India is lagging behind only because of the corrupted politicians. They eat all the common man's money in the form of taxes, VAT, etc. 

In a recent news channel there was a clip in which people were asked a question. The question went like this.. Who is the dangerous person in India? And the options were

 a) a terrorist b) a politician c) a communalist..

Many people gave different answers. The answers were given in equal ratio. But, the actual answer for this question is A COMMON MAN.. Yes, it is true. A common man is the most dangerous person in India. They do have to sacrifice and only sacrifice. They have to pay taxes and spend their half of the income in these taxes. They pay income tax and do not receive anything back. They pay and only pay but still the roads are not proper. No proper drainage system. No proper manholes. No proper traffic management. The traffic police only knows how to loot people's money. Many accidents takes place in India only. India is lagging behind in it's economy also.
If one person wants to be good then the other wont let it happen. He will try his best to change his mate. Recently their was an inspection in our college. Our sir told us that every year this inspection is taken place. The main objective of this inspection is to collect money from the college authorities. Minimum of Rs.5000 is been given to them. These people earn not less than Rs.1 lakh per month. 5 years back their was a person in this place who took nothing. He was very strict and a determined person. But he was removed from the post as he did his work sincerely. There is no place for the sincere people in our society.

The only reason for our corrupted society is the relationships in our society. A father does n't behaves like a father. A brother does n't behaves like a brother. When a girl is walking on a road, a boy comes and eve-teases her. At that point of time he forgets that he has a sister at his home too.. Their are so many cases going on in our country relating to rape. The girl who was raped in Delhi by the 6 people in December has  not been given justice till now. Is it fair?? Not at all!!
Our society SHOULD be improved alot. People should not vote for the party. They should vote for the person. Someone should raise their hand for all this crab happening in the society. Only because one person follows the rule, the other one too has to compromise.. This should be stopped immediately. Only then India will come up and have some position.

Raise your voices and change the happenings in the SOCIETY.!!

     

It's mY birThDaY!!

Guess what?? It's my birthday 2morrow..! And I am v.v. excited for it.. My dear ones are planning alot for me.. Woh bhi ek mahine se.. Pata nahi kal kya hoga?? But asusual.. No expectations from my family.. :(:( My dad is out of India but mumma bought me many many gifts... :) But very happy that my friendzz have planned soo much for me.. They have ORDERED me to take an off from college 2morrow! :D Dekhte hai kal kya hota hai! Damn excited mann!

           Very happy to know that my favourite baller's birthday is today.. Guess who?? Dale Steyn <3<3<3! I juzt love him so so much..! :P 

Heights of Idioticity

I have just heard about the actress Jiah Khan suicide case. She hanged herself in her room in her Juhu 's house only because she did n't get many offers in the movies. I guess she was doing well. Her movies like Ghajini, Housefull and Nishabd did well.. and if she would try and wait for sometime she would reach her dream. I even heard that she was not doing well with her boyfriend. She doubted him and their was some misunderstanding.
''SUICIDE'' - This word has become a new trend in India.. Students who don' t do well in their exams, unsuccessful businessmen and unsuccessful marriages .. Everywhere, in every field we are seeing people committing suicide.. I think this is not only the option. People, instead, can start once again and try to reach their goal.
If someone is committing suicide, he is not gaining anything for himself or his family too. Life goes on.. People cry for few days and forget. Life does n't stop for anyone.. So we should not waste our time on other thoughts. We should try to be happy and give our best in everything..

Me..

And.. i was born.Everybody expected a boy.. But unfortunately it was Me.. Nishi Sanghi.. Everyone's faces turned to a sad one when the nurse announced it was a baby girl.. Don't know why people prefer a boy and not a girl.. According to me even a girl can do all those things what a guy can.. I am proud that i am a girl..
 Sometimes I think why did God create us?? Did he have that much of time to waste? Or he wanted to have some entertainment? I got my answer now when I am in my teen.. God created human beings for a purpose..   I understood that I have to do something good for my people and myself  too..
I, frankly speaking hated myself. I was back stabbed from my own people.. My best friends.. But later when  I attended a seminar on POSITIVE THINKING by Dr. Sneh Desai, I thought life is really too short.. Then why hatred? I really cried alot that day and forgived everyone i was angry on..
Now I really want to change myself. My weakness is ANGER. This wrak point of mine created lots of problems in my life. I want to eliminate this thing from my life. Just throw it away or just flush it off from my life (Shahid Kapoor apni gf ko flush off karta hai na JAB WE MET mein :-P ) I am trying my best to change myself and totally working on it..